No One Intended Harm

No One Intended Harm is not a memoir of survival. It is a phenomenological autopsy of the self.Harm was not beaten. He was not screamed at. He was not the victim of any event that could be narrated, prosecuted, or healed. He was simply not seen. Not held. Not attuned to. Not intended. And in that absence—the crushing, continuous, atmospheric absence of neglect—he learned that the opposite of love ...