Screw Consent

When we talk about sex—whether great, good, bad, or unlawful—we often turn to consent as both our erotic and moral savior. We ask questions like, What counts as sexual consent? How do we teach consent to impressionable youth, potential predators, and victims? How can we make consent sexy?
 
What if these are all the wrong questions? What if our preoccupation with consent is hindering a safer and b...